Moving to Thailand has been one of the most eye-opening experiences of my life. It’s a country that teaches calmness, patience and mindfulness in ways you don’t expect. Coming from Italy, where emotions flow freely and gestures say as much as words, adapting to Thai culture took time and a few cultural missteps. From learning to stay composed in public, to crossing the chaotic streets of Bangkok safely, and dressing respectfully at temples and schools, Thailand has gently reshaped how I see the world.
First Impressions and Culture Shock
Living in Thailand for a while has helped me identify more with the culture and truly resonate with it. Was there culture shock? Absolutely, I won’t lie.
I’m originally Italian, and we tend to be open, expressive, and full of gestures, sometimes our hands speak louder than our words! We’re passionate, animated, and yes, a little chaotic. However, in Thailand, I quickly learned that this kind of expressiveness should be toned down. Life here is guided by calmness, respect, and composure.
Never be rude, and avoid raising your voice or showing frustration. Thais are generally calm, patient, and kind, and they expect the same in return. If you stay respectful, you’ll have no issues, in fact, you might even wonder why you weren’t born here!
Be very careful when crossing the streets: zebra crossings don’t work like in Western countries. Cars have priority over pedestrians, especially in Bangkok!
On busy roads, avoid crossing directly. Instead, use the pedestrian overpass or skywalk. It might take a few extra minutes, but it’s much safer.
Dressing modestly is another important aspect of Thai culture. Respect for others and religion is deeply rooted in everyday life, especially in workplaces or religious sites.
Working in a Thai School
If you consider working in a school in Thailand, be prepared for a formal dress code. Public schools are more conservative than international schools, but both expect professional clothing. Skirts should reach the knees, trousers should be smart-casual, no jeans allowed and tops must cover your shoulders. Sandals are often not permitted.
Visiting Temples
The same modesty applies when visiting temples. Your shoulders must be covered, and bottoms should reach at least your knees. Many temples provide scarves or wraps if you forget.
Don’t be afraid of the rainy season, it’s not as bad as some make it out to be! Rain can fall heavily for an hour or two, then stop as suddenly as it started. The air feels fresher, everything turns lush and green, and it’s a welcome break from the scorching summer.
Navigating streets can be tricky when it rains, so water boots are handy, and avoid splashes from cars.
